WHAT A MAN WANTS
Are you confused about what a man wants? Unfortunately, as women, once we fall for a man our maternal instincts seem to start coming out. We start taking care of them, right? Cooking, cleaning, making them their favorite desert, pampering them, rubbing their feet, giving them back rubs. I mean, the list can go on and on.
Then we start feeling like we are being taken for granted, that everything we do is all of a sudden expected. So then what is it we do? Usually we get angry at the man, and start complaining and nagging. We start to feel resentful. Then we start to withdraw from him, stop snuggling, stop talking, stop laughing at his jokes, etc..
Then we start feeling like we are being taken for granted, that everything we do is all of a sudden expected. So then what is it we do? Usually we get angry at the man, and start complaining and nagging. We start to feel resentful. Then we start to withdraw from him, stop snuggling, stop talking, stop laughing at his jokes, etc..
Well ladies, I hate to say it but.... it's our own fault. We created that situation, we spoiled him and now we are angry about it. And we are angry at him about it! And you want to know something else? It's not really what he wanted to begin with! I'm sure he enjoyed it, who wouldn't? But instead of being that women he fell for, you have become his mother, and that's not what he started going out with you for.
So, what does a man want? Well research has shown that a what a man wants is something to reassure him that he is an alright guy, that he is an okay person, that he is worth something... What a man really wants is validation, and to be loved, but not just loved by anyone - to be loved by someone he senses is emotionally independent and strong. This kind of love is validating and worthwhile.
The moment you start nesting and doing wifely things or worse, treating him like a child, reminding him to do things, finding his keys, cooking, cleaning, doing laundry he no longer has to work to keep you happy, which takes away one of his primary jobs as your man. So, when you do all those things, simply remind him how much you appreciate him, let him know how happy he makes you, how taken care you feel, how beautiful, sexy, etc. A man wants to be with a woman who makes him feel like a man.
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HOW TO GIVE A MAN WHAT HE WANTS
So, what does a man want? Well research has shown that a what a man wants is something to reassure him that he is an alright guy, that he is an okay person, that he is worth something... What a man really wants is validation, and to be loved, but not just loved by anyone - to be loved by someone he senses is emotionally independent and strong. This kind of love is validating and worthwhile.
The moment you start nesting and doing wifely things or worse, treating him like a child, reminding him to do things, finding his keys, cooking, cleaning, doing laundry he no longer has to work to keep you happy, which takes away one of his primary jobs as your man. So, when you do all those things, simply remind him how much you appreciate him, let him know how happy he makes you, how taken care you feel, how beautiful, sexy, etc. A man wants to be with a woman who makes him feel like a man.
If you want to know more about What a Man Wants to improve your current relationship or to attract the man of your dreams the you can find out more here on what a man wants.
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HOW TO GIVE A MAN WHAT HE WANTS
Did you know that you have it in your power to calm a man like a little boy in his mother's arms. Therein lies what a man really wants: a Woman who nurtures him... but who he can look up to and knows won't take any of his guff.
Be caring, but be strong. Therein lies the key to fulfilling a man's heart. You may wonder why I'm so concerned about meeting the man's needs and not yours, but that's another article. If he isn't fulfilling your needs you're definitely choosing the wrong man.
But if you've got the right man and you become What He Really Wants, such a love must be clung to with all the strength you can muster. For such a love is attainable, but rare in this world of ours.
Here are a few points to remember:
* Always be beautiful in “how you are.” That means: no nagging, whining, complaining, belittling, gossiping, etc.. not just toward him, but everyone else, including yourself.
* Let him know how he makes you happy.
* Appreciate him for all he does for you.
* Appreciate his masculine qualities, especially those he admires in himself.
And MOST IMPORTANT, take responsibility for your own happiness, and BE HAPPY. Every time you let him know you’re unhappy, he takes it personally.
Do all that, and he will never want to risk losing you because he’ll see how you are different from EVERY other woman he’s known.
Women today are very powerful but that power needs to be packaged within Feminine Grace if you are going to be able to make a man feel loved, appreciated and looked up to. Too often, powerful women make a man feel emasculated. But know this, a man also wants to look up to and respect his woman. Not easy, but because we’re women, we can do it. The secrets for how to do that are here.
#1. Instead of complaining, whining, or raising your voice, speak softly with clear, concise, respectful, and loving language.
How do you do that? Before you “react” stop for however long you need in order to calm yourself.
Walk away, explaining that you need to collect your thoughts before continuing. Then plan what you want to say. Sometimes I even write down what I need to communicate so I remember what I need to say. Then, when it’s time to talk about it, I ask that I be allowed to finish before he speaks. You’ll be surprised how well this works. He’ll stay open to what you need to say, you’ll be heard, and if you continue throughout the conversation as two people who love each other, your relationship will blossom.
Benefit to you: You’ll get his attention, his cooperation, and his respect.
Why it works: Men need clear, concise, unemotional language to be able to hear you. Otherwise, they shut it out completely. And we all know how good they can be at doing that.
#2. Look for ways that he makes you happy and let him know . . . regularly.
Some examples might be: “It makes me happy that you like solving problems for me,” or, “You make me feel wonderful when you tell me you love me,” or, “It makes me happy that you help with the kids and they love it.”
One of the chapters in Men Made Easy, is titled: “Why Men Are Driven To Make Women Happy.” Letting him know you’re happy makes him feel successful. He needs that and you can give it to him.
Benefit to you: He’ll start looking for more ways to make you happy.
Why it works: If you’re not happy he feels like a failure and men hate to fail.
#3. Appreciate him often, especially for his masculine qualities and those things you know he likes about himself, things he’s proud of.
Examples could be: “I really appreciate what a nice home you’ve been able to give us, thank you so much,” or, “I love how strong you are. I like watching you work,” or, “The way you make love to me is so perfect, mmmmmm.”
Benefit to you: He’ll fall in love each time you do it and you’ll make him feel like a hero. (The last secret in Men Made Easy is “A man wants to be with a woman who makes him feel like a man.”)
Why it works: Men compete with other men and need to measure up. You can validate his worth as a man.
#4. Give him romantic kisses instead of pecks. Long hello kisses tell him you’re glad to see him, long good-bye kisses tell him you can’t wait until he returns, long thank-you kisses tell him you really appreciate what he did for you, and “hey you, kiss me” kisses tell him you want him.
Benefit to you: He’ll feel more connected to you and look forward to being with you.
Why it works: Physical connection is the only way most men know how to be intimate and intimacy is what makes your relationship special.
#5. Flirt with him.
Be playful, tease him, talk sexy once in a while, gaze into his eyes with a “come here, big boy” twinkle, offer sexy kisses and physical touches.
Why do we think we can quit doing the things we did when we were first falling in love and expect our relationship to stay strong? The relationships that endure are those where the couple stays “in love”. That means flirting, being playful, being sexy and sensual, and remembering why we fell in love in the first place.
Benefit to you: You’ll both feel younger, friskier, and more in love.
Why it works: Flirting is a kind of play and playfulness helps cement your bond. And adding the sexual energy to the mix keeps the sexual side of your relationship alive and vibrant. Remember this, when the sexual side of your relationship dies, you become roommates at best.
If you want to know how to get a man to commit to you - find out how to ensure he can’t live without you .
Need More Help and Information? Check out our Blog for more articles on Love, Marriage & Relationships. Just Click Here.
My Review of Men Made Easy – Capture His Heart & Transform Your Relationship
But if you've got the right man and you become What He Really Wants, such a love must be clung to with all the strength you can muster. For such a love is attainable, but rare in this world of ours.
Here are a few points to remember:
* Always be beautiful in “how you are.” That means: no nagging, whining, complaining, belittling, gossiping, etc.. not just toward him, but everyone else, including yourself.
* Let him know how he makes you happy.
* Appreciate him for all he does for you.
* Appreciate his masculine qualities, especially those he admires in himself.
And MOST IMPORTANT, take responsibility for your own happiness, and BE HAPPY. Every time you let him know you’re unhappy, he takes it personally.
Do all that, and he will never want to risk losing you because he’ll see how you are different from EVERY other woman he’s known.
Women today are very powerful but that power needs to be packaged within Feminine Grace if you are going to be able to make a man feel loved, appreciated and looked up to. Too often, powerful women make a man feel emasculated. But know this, a man also wants to look up to and respect his woman. Not easy, but because we’re women, we can do it. The secrets for how to do that are here.
#1. Instead of complaining, whining, or raising your voice, speak softly with clear, concise, respectful, and loving language.
How do you do that? Before you “react” stop for however long you need in order to calm yourself.
Walk away, explaining that you need to collect your thoughts before continuing. Then plan what you want to say. Sometimes I even write down what I need to communicate so I remember what I need to say. Then, when it’s time to talk about it, I ask that I be allowed to finish before he speaks. You’ll be surprised how well this works. He’ll stay open to what you need to say, you’ll be heard, and if you continue throughout the conversation as two people who love each other, your relationship will blossom.
Benefit to you: You’ll get his attention, his cooperation, and his respect.
Why it works: Men need clear, concise, unemotional language to be able to hear you. Otherwise, they shut it out completely. And we all know how good they can be at doing that.
#2. Look for ways that he makes you happy and let him know . . . regularly.
Some examples might be: “It makes me happy that you like solving problems for me,” or, “You make me feel wonderful when you tell me you love me,” or, “It makes me happy that you help with the kids and they love it.”
One of the chapters in Men Made Easy, is titled: “Why Men Are Driven To Make Women Happy.” Letting him know you’re happy makes him feel successful. He needs that and you can give it to him.
Benefit to you: He’ll start looking for more ways to make you happy.
Why it works: If you’re not happy he feels like a failure and men hate to fail.
#3. Appreciate him often, especially for his masculine qualities and those things you know he likes about himself, things he’s proud of.
Examples could be: “I really appreciate what a nice home you’ve been able to give us, thank you so much,” or, “I love how strong you are. I like watching you work,” or, “The way you make love to me is so perfect, mmmmmm.”
Benefit to you: He’ll fall in love each time you do it and you’ll make him feel like a hero. (The last secret in Men Made Easy is “A man wants to be with a woman who makes him feel like a man.”)
Why it works: Men compete with other men and need to measure up. You can validate his worth as a man.
#4. Give him romantic kisses instead of pecks. Long hello kisses tell him you’re glad to see him, long good-bye kisses tell him you can’t wait until he returns, long thank-you kisses tell him you really appreciate what he did for you, and “hey you, kiss me” kisses tell him you want him.
Benefit to you: He’ll feel more connected to you and look forward to being with you.
Why it works: Physical connection is the only way most men know how to be intimate and intimacy is what makes your relationship special.
#5. Flirt with him.
Be playful, tease him, talk sexy once in a while, gaze into his eyes with a “come here, big boy” twinkle, offer sexy kisses and physical touches.
Why do we think we can quit doing the things we did when we were first falling in love and expect our relationship to stay strong? The relationships that endure are those where the couple stays “in love”. That means flirting, being playful, being sexy and sensual, and remembering why we fell in love in the first place.
Benefit to you: You’ll both feel younger, friskier, and more in love.
Why it works: Flirting is a kind of play and playfulness helps cement your bond. And adding the sexual energy to the mix keeps the sexual side of your relationship alive and vibrant. Remember this, when the sexual side of your relationship dies, you become roommates at best.
If you want to know how to get a man to commit to you - find out how to ensure he can’t live without you .
Need More Help and Information? Check out our Blog for more articles on Love, Marriage & Relationships. Just Click Here.
My Review of Men Made Easy – Capture His Heart & Transform Your Relationship
Have you been trying to figure out What Men Want and still find yourself lost and confused? Well let me tell you, trying to understand men isn't the easiest thing - I had been trying for quite a while. I wanted to strengthen the relationship I was in before it completely fell apart, having all the common problems a lot of couples had. I didn't have a lot of luck with a lot of programs, The solutions they were giving me just didn't seem to work.
Then I ran across Men Made Easy.
Men Made Easy is written by Kara Oh. Kara is widely referred to as the “Heart Whisperer” for good reason. She knows what makes relationships work. In the book she shares with women what they can do right now to get men to respond to them exactly as they want, whether it's with a significant other or someone your dating. She even gives amazing advice for women who are single. So if your still single this book is a definitive must have.
Men Made Easy gives you insight into how men think and the triggers that women need to be aware of that when used will make a man weak in the knees and will draw him naturally to her. Kara explains the secret that turns any ordinary relationship into a passionate, once in a lifetime love affair. You’re also going to discover 12 secrets that will transforms any ordinary relationship into an exceptional, passionate lifelong love affair. It has completely transformed my relationship with my spouse.
So If you want men to chase you, if there’s one man in particular you want as your own or if you want to transform or a relationship you are already in then you need to read the book. Use the book and live by the book. It will change your relationship with men – forever.
PS - make sure to read the tip on page 23 as soon as possible – it will explains the single most powerful tool to ignite romantic love in your man.
Then I ran across Men Made Easy.
Men Made Easy is written by Kara Oh. Kara is widely referred to as the “Heart Whisperer” for good reason. She knows what makes relationships work. In the book she shares with women what they can do right now to get men to respond to them exactly as they want, whether it's with a significant other or someone your dating. She even gives amazing advice for women who are single. So if your still single this book is a definitive must have.
Men Made Easy gives you insight into how men think and the triggers that women need to be aware of that when used will make a man weak in the knees and will draw him naturally to her. Kara explains the secret that turns any ordinary relationship into a passionate, once in a lifetime love affair. You’re also going to discover 12 secrets that will transforms any ordinary relationship into an exceptional, passionate lifelong love affair. It has completely transformed my relationship with my spouse.
So If you want men to chase you, if there’s one man in particular you want as your own or if you want to transform or a relationship you are already in then you need to read the book. Use the book and live by the book. It will change your relationship with men – forever.
PS - make sure to read the tip on page 23 as soon as possible – it will explains the single most powerful tool to ignite romantic love in your man.
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